Best Biographies & Memoirs
Book Blurb:
There are many miles from the business school and basketball court at the University of Southern California to 50 million viewers for the final episode of a TV show called Magnum P.I. Tom Selleck has lived every one of those miles in his own iconoclastic and joyful way.
Frank, funny and open-hearted, You Never Know is an intimate memoir from one of the most beloved actors of our time, the highly personal story of a remarkable life and thoroughly accidental career. In his own voice and uniquely unpretentious style, the famed actor brings listeners on his uncharted but serendipitous journey to the top in Hollywood, his temptations and distractions, his misfires and mistakes and, over time, his well-earned success. Along the way, he clears up an armload of misconceptions and shares dozens of never-told stories from all corners of his personal and professional life. His rambunctious California childhood. His clueless arrival as a good-looking college jock in Hollywood (from the Dating Game to the Fox New Talent Program to co-starring with Mae West and escorting her to black-tie social functions). What it was like to emerge as a mega-star in his mid-thirties and remain so for decades to come, an actor whose authenticity and ease in front of the camera connected with audiences worldwide while embodying and also redefining the clichés of onscreen manhood.
In You Never Know, Selleck recounts his personal friendships with a vivid army of A-listers, everyone from Frank Sinatra to Carol Burnett to Sam Elliott, paying special tribute to his mentor James Garner of The Rockford Files, who believed, like Selleck, that TV protagonists are far more interesting when they have rough edges.He also more than tips his hat to the American western and the scruffy band of actors, directors and other ruffians who helped define that classic genre, where Selleck has repeatedly found a happy home. Magnum fans will be fascinated to learn how Selleck put his career on the line to make Thomas Magnum a more imperfect hero and explains why he walked away from a show that could easily have gone on for years longer.
Hollywood is never easy, even for stars who make it look that way. In You Never Know, Selleck explains how he’s struggled to balance his personal and professional lives, frequently adjusting his career to protect his family’s privacy and normalcy. His journey offers a truly fresh perspective on a changing industry and a changing world. Beneath all the charm and talent and self-deprecating humor, Selleck’s memoir reveals an American icon who has reached remarkable heights by always insisting on being himself.
My Review:
You might get the impression by the length of the blurb that this gets a little on the verbose side? Well, possibly.
I waited for my turn on the library audiobook and it was worth the wait. I was interested to see what he thought important and given that his years with Magnum PI ran into minute detail on specific episodes, the rewriting of each, and the next season’s problems, I’d guess that was where his heart is.
The man was a head-turner, no question, but have to say when Magnum ran (December 11, 1980 to May 1, 1988), I was busy with a three and five-year-old and if I had time to watch TV was probably too exhausted to remember tuning into much of the Magnum seasons.
Oh, wait! “But I have to say” and “I gotta tell you” were repeated so many times I wondered why the editor didn’t cut a few. But anyway, I gotta tell you, he read his book to me. Or it seemed like it. Well, he didn’t just read it. The book was spoken in an easy, comfortable and conversational tone. I just needed the overstuffed easy chair with a glass of Moscato.
I didn’t get to ask questions though, and if I had, I might have asked about the blanks in his story—more on his early childhood—his marriages. More…personal stuff. And, maybe more about Blue Bloods. Eegods—that was longer running than Magnum (fourteen seasons) as opposed to seven on Magnum. Actually, I was really surprised by all his credits—a much longer list than I had any clue. (After all, the man’s been involved in the industry fifty years.)
It appears he was incredibly lucky, this was certainly not a path he was originally set on. Serendipity worked for him more than once, with the possible exception of his loss of the role that Harrison Ford got in the Raiders flicks.
He was divorced from first wife Jackie when he met Jillie Mack who was playing in Cats in London. It has to be Jillie that kept him coming back to see that one (eight times!?). I snoozed through a large part of it.
I did enjoy many of the thoughtful memories, the stories of the locations, the one in Yugoslavia in particular. They did have too much fun! I wondered sometimes if his generous and considerate memories of the many men and women he was associated with were paving a story for the picture of a loving and sweet hero or was that really who he is? There was an obvious change from his humble beginnings as he got more popular during Magnum to his exertion of more power. And how could you not? He’d had a lot to learn and obviously learned it very well.
He dropped a lot of names, including Princess Di, but I particularly loved his friendship with James Garner, always one of my favorites. Memories were kept on the charitable side followed by the story of his 63 acre ranch located in Ventura County, California when he retired from Blue Bloods. That’s a beautiful area, my brother born there back when there were more acres of orange groves than houses. Before the drought hit California, his ranch was a thriving avocado farm.
If you enjoy celebrity memoirs, you’ll enjoy this one, particularly because it’s narrated by the author. If you are looking for trash on all his associates, you might not. I’d recommend it, however.
I downloaded a copy of this audiobook from my local well-stocked library. These are my honest thoughts.
Rosepoint Publishing: Four point Five Stars 
Book Details:
Genre: Rich & Famous Biographies, Biographies & Celebrities & Entertainment Professionals, Actor & Entertainer Biographies
Publisher: HarperAudio
ASIN: B07QPQF4DB
Listening Length: 15 hrs 27 mins
Narrator: Tom Selleck
Publication Date: November 19, 2024
Source: Local Library (Audiobook Selections)
Title Link: You Never Know – Amazon-US
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The Author: Tom Selleck, born in Detroit, Michigan on January 29, 1945. Tom Selleck is an American actor, film producer, and California Army National Guard veteran. He is most known for starring as private investigator Thomas Magnum in the television series Magnum, P.I. (1980–1988), as Peter Mitchell in the comedy film Three Men and a Baby, and as NYPD Commissioner Frank Reagan in Blue Bloods on CBS since 2010. (Goodreads bio)
Thomas William Selleck is an American actor. His breakout role was playing private investigator Thomas Magnum in the television series Magnum, P.I., for which he received five Emmy Award nominations for Outstanding Lead Actor in a Drama Series, winning in 1985. (Wikipedia–short bio and portraits)
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