I loved it for a while, but alas, the AI freebies are over (used my free credits) both on Canva and Gemini. Now I’m back to sampling Freepik—without much luck. The background of the bookcase below is a sample, but obviously not very close to my description of the picture I’d envisioned. Must admit, Gemini came closer to creating the images I wanted, but it too is bye-bye. I used to try to use only those pictures I originated, my pictures or designs. That’s no longer working. Got a source you like? What is your favorite go-to for images?
February is a short one and it flew by. I used to love March. Spring. Warmer weather. New growth, babies. Promise. Of course, for me, it’s also birthday month and as usual the body is saying one thing and the mind another. It’s a clash of wills but it may be the body who wins and both the CE and I are beginning to make more of those dreaded trips to the doc. We used to joke we’d need a car only for groceries and doctor visits. Ugh. Not so funny anymore, but that’s where some of our reading time went.
I’m still using Goodreads to find good audiobooks, as well as blogger buddy suggestions. My library has most of what I look for but it’s amazing the number of books that are on waiting lists despite having numerous copies. Of course, I still find books at NetGalley, as well as author and publisher requests.
We managed ten reviews between us in February that included four audiobooks. As always, the links on titles are to our reviews that include purchase or source information.
WOW, it was a tough one this month! A number of them could have been five-star reads from either of us, but despite a small issue that may have knocked off a half-star, the story was still outstanding. Included in the month—several memoirs! In particular though, This American Woman—super, Guardian of the Crossroads—excellent, and Gathering Mist—love the dogs—really ticked off all the boxes. Zarna Garg has an amazing view of issues—some alien to mine but always with a sense of humor. Melanie Forde definitely pushed outside of her familiar family sagas. This one deeper, darker than I’d seen before and it worked, leaving me slack-jawed. Most readers have sampled Margaret Mizushima’s books. Always good, fast paced, and informative. So which one gets the coveted Rosepoint nod?
My Goodreads Challenge is currently at 33 of a 2025 goal of 125. No, keeping up with my Challenge page wasn’t a New Year’s resolution. I’ll get to it…
Welcome to my new subscribers! So glad you joined this group. I hope you found a book or two that appealed to you here, and I’m always looking for your suggestions! And to all my readers, have a beautiful March!
Young people starting out in television sometimes say to me:
“I want to be you.” My stock reply is always: “Then you have to take the whole package.”
Book Blurb:
And now, at last, the most important woman in the history of television journalism gives us that “whole package,” in her inspiring and riveting memoir. After more than forty years of interviewing heads of state, world leaders, movie stars, criminals, murderers, inspirational figures, and celebrities of all kinds, Barbara Walters has turned her gift for examination onto herself to reveal the forces that shaped her extraordinary life.
Barbara Walters’s perception of the world was formed at a very early age. Her father, Lou Walters, was the owner and creative mind behind the legendary Latin Quarter nightclub, and it was his risk-taking lifestyle that made Barbara aware of the ups and downs that can occur when someone is willing to take great risks.
The financial responsibility for her family, the fear, the love all played a large part in the choices she made as she grew up: the friendships she developed, the relationships she had, the marriages she tried to make work. Ultimately, thanks to her drive, combined with a decent amount of luck, she began a career in television. And what a career it has been! Against great odds, Barbara has made it to the top of a male-dominated industry.
She has spent a lifetime auditioning, and this book, in some ways, is her final audition, as she fully opens up both her private and public lives. In doing so, she has given us a story that is heartbreaking and honest, surprising and fun, sometimes startling, and always fascinating.
My Review:
It’s always fun to get the down low on our celebrities. I always wonder how they got their start. Born with a silver spoon or gagging on mush for the twentieth day? In this case, she appears to have experienced a bit of both.
First, I marveled that as a girl of her generation, she was given the opportunity for college when most women were not expected to have more than a high school education if that. That generation would not waste an education on someone whose role was expected to be a wife and mother.
There certainly was a drive in her, however, in that her father worked heavily in the entertainment business. Lou Walters, who managed during tough financial times in the US, created the sensational Latin Quarter Nightclub in New York. Originally from London, his nightclub was a sensational hit. And then it wasn’t. Feast or famine. And insecurity.
But, yes, as with any who finally makes it to the top, there was a combination of luck, timing, and hard, hard work—willing to take on anything. And back then, a woman in that industry was expected to do little more than fetch coffee.
In her sixty-five years in the industry, as a journalist, she interviewed anyone and everyone. The famous and infamous. Newsworthy. News reporter, co-anchor, and anchor. Television personality, appearing and/or creating topical talk shows. I must admit that I didn’t watch The View, but did enjoy 20/20 and her interviews.
At almost twenty-seven hours of an audiobook, translating to more than 628 Kindle or print pages, you can imagine she didn’t leave anyone out of her book. Less you believe I didn’t pound through all that, I’ll admit there were more than a few dry areas, then jerking back into someone of interest. Enough that there would be someone of interest to a wide range audience.
Her love life, affairs, and marriages? Gees, Barbara, TMI.
Still, there were a number of quotables and I found it fascinating that she vacillated so much over decisions. Indeed, one of my favorites:
“On my gravestone I want inscribed maybe, on the other hand, I should have lived.”
Obviously, something may have made the decision for her. She passed away in 2022.
She may possibly have reduced this book by half if she had not expanded on the story of most everyone she cited. Granted, they were all notable, maybe some more than others. Somehow, though, this reader hung in there for every new celebrity by speeding up the audiobook pace or I’d still be listening to it.
I downloaded a copy of this audiobook from my local well-stocked library. These are my honest thoughts.
Rosepoint Publishing:Four Stars
Book Details:
Genre: Biographies of Journalists, Editors & Publishers, Journalist Biographies, Biographies of Women Publisher:Random House Audio ASIN: B001M5G75Y Listening Length: 26 hrs 46 mins Narrator: Bernadette Dunne Publication Date: November 24, 2008 Source: Local Library (Audiobook Selections) Title Links: Amazon-US Amazon-UK
Barbara Walters, photo by Lynn Gilbert, courtesy Wikipedia
The Author:Barbara Walters of American television reported news from 1961 for the National Broadcasting Company, and afterward in 1976 joined as the first woman to anchor the nightly network to 1979.
Barbara Jill Walters wrote as a journalist and media personality as a regular fixture on morning shows like The View. People knew Walters for more than a decade in the morning on Today, where she with Hugh Downs later hosted Frank McGee and Jim Hartz. Walters later spent a quarter-century as co-host of 20/20, an evening magazine. She stood with Harry Reasoner on The American Broadcasting Company Evening News. [Wikipedia]
[Wikipedia has an extensive bio on Ms Walters from personal to professional life, well worth checking out. She accomplished more in her ninety-three years than most can imagine and is truly inspirational in breaking records and opening doors for women.]
Griffin Dunne’s memoir of growing up among larger-than-life characters in Hollywood and Manhattan finds wicked humor and glimmers of light in even the most painful of circumstances
At eight, Sean Connery saved him from drowning. At thirteen, desperate to hook up with Janis Joplin, he attended his aunt Joan Didion and uncle John Gregory Dunne’s legendary LA launch party for Tom Wolfe’s The Electric Kool-Aid Acid Test. At sixteen, he got kicked out of boarding school, ending his institutional education for good. In his early twenties, he shared an apartment in Manhattan’s Hotel Des Artistes with his best friend and soulmate Carrie Fisher while she was filming some sci-fi movie called Star Wars and he was a struggling actor working as a popcorn concessionaire at Radio City Music Hall. A few years later, he produced and starred in the now-iconic film After Hours, directed by Martin Scorsese. In the midst of it all, Griffin’s twenty-two-year-old sister, Dominique, a rising star in Hollywood, was brutally strangled to death by her ex-boyfriend, leading to one of the most infamous public trials of the 1980s. The outcome was a travesty of justice that marked the beginning of their father Dominick Dunne’s career as a crime reporter for Vanity Fair and a victims’ rights activist.
And yet, for all its boldface cast of characters and jaw-dropping scenes, The Friday Afternoon Club is no mere celebrity memoir. It is, down to its bones, a family story that embraces the poignant absurdities and best and worst efforts of its loveable, infuriating, funny, and moving characters—its author most of all.
My Review:
Has the drama and trauma experienced by Griffin Dunne in his life been fully exposed in his memoir?
I’m torn.
Is this memoir truly a tell all, name-dropping exposé of his life, or a bid to one up his dad? I’m not sure. Griffin details a childhood full of the growth of his father’s career that led to their Hollywood experience and the introduction to a myriad list of well-known celebrities. Most of the time it felt like he was actively grabbing the coattails of one or the other of his family or his latest squeeze using everyone as a stepping stone to something bigger and better.
He discusses his aunt, author Joan Didion, and his “soulmate”Carrie Fisher (I wondered if she knew she was his soulmate and, of course, is no longer around to dispute that. I read her memoir as well and just don’t remember mention of him). Carrie did an amazing job, not just with her writing style, wit, and often sarcastic delivery, but the overall story she had to tell.
Griffin exhibits a sense of humor, but not the delivery, and his focus is different, remembering anecdotes of the many celebrities who passed through his life. He decries his father using the violent death of his sister, Dominique, as a springboard for his newly discovered writing career, but then devotes a large portion of his own book to reviewing the sensational trial of the ex-boyfriend who murdered her and the accompanying appalling loss of justice.
Dunne writes of his sexual exploits, detailing a few, while exposing his newly clean and sober closeted father. The reason for the name of the book is touched upon only briefly well into the book and I’m not sure is relevant–to the reader anyway.
I both enjoyed and found parts of his novel disturbing and I don’t think you’ll find a lot here that would be a surprise. I downloaded a copy of this audiobook from my local well-stocked library. These are my honest thoughts.
Rosepoint Publishing:Four Stars
Book Details:
Genre: Biographies of Authors, Author Biographies, Biographies of Celebrities & Entertainment Professionals Publisher:Penguin Audio ASIN: B0CQKJBPXQ Listening Length: 12 hrs 19 mins Narrator: Griffin Dunne Publication Date: June 11, 2024 Source: Local Library (Audiobook Selections)
The Author:Griffin Dunne has been an actor, producer, and director since the late 1970s. Among his work, he produced and acted in After Hours; he directed Practical Magic and the documentary The Center Will Not Hold about his aunt, Joan Didion. Griffin and his dog, Mary, live in the East Village of Manhattan.
I’ve mentioned the Goodreads Choice Awards in previous years as it’s one of my favorite places to look for trending novels and authors, often finding my next book or audiobook.
I vote in each level from the opening round to the final round and some years score more winners than others. It’s fun to see how many of my reads, whether gleaned from Goodreads suggestions, publishers and authors, or NetGalley made it to the finals and, if so, where they came in. (Number 1?)
As of the prep for this post, there were already 2,736,392 votes cast in fifteen categories. Fiction, Historical Fiction, Mystery & Thriller, Romance, Romantasy, Fantasy, Science Fiction, Horror, Debut Nove, Audiobook, Young Adult Fantasy, Young Adult Fiction, Nonfiction, Memoir, History & Biography.
Romantasy?New last year? My favorite categories are Mystery & Thriller, Historical Fiction, Fiction, and Crime Fiction, but also read Humor, Memoir, Biography, Nonfiction, and Debut novels. Of course, the CE adds his own brand of reading usually of more masculine novels with action-adventure.
Up for consideration this year are eight of the books read in 2024 that landed on the list in the following categories: (Links are to my reviews which list sales info as well as the Goodreads link.)
(I’m rather surprised so many are from my audiobook selections.)
Last year, my Memoir & Autobiography vote went to Spare by Prince Harry, but surprised Britney Spears won for The Woman in Me (did you read that one? I read it but preferred Spare.) I did, however, pick the winner for the History & Biography category, The Wager. Gees, that was good and so glad it won!
There are 300 nominees this year across the 15 categories, but I swear a couple of those are new and a few categories were eliminated from previous years (poetry, middle grade and children’s, comic novels and graphics). The opening round of voting is between November 12 until November 24, so you still have time to make your voice heard.
Did one of your favorite books land in the nominees? Vote for it! The final round starts November 26, ends December 1. Winners are announced December 5.
So I have to ask:
How many of the above did you read?
In how many different categories do you participate?
Do you look for reading ideas from the Goodreads winners?
What is your source for 2025 trending books?
And, lastly—have you gone to any movies or viewed series based on one of your choices?
I’ve always appreciated Goodreads for the extensive resources they provide. I often check their New Releases section under “Browse” as well as Recommendations and crosscheck those against the offerings in NetGalley. If I cannot find the book in NetGalley, I check my local library and look for the audiobook first.
What is the book you are hoping to see listed in those nominees?
Just when we had a stretch of mild weather, beautiful temps for everything I wanted to do outside, I went grocery shopping. A few days later, I came down with Covid—whichever variety is currently going around, I guess, and a few days after that, the CE came down with it. Here we’ve gotten all through ’20, ’21, ’22, and ’23, then got caught. Definitely laid me low for two weeks and then another two weeks still lacking any energy and short on stamina. Fortunately, our son didn’t catch it for another few days, so he was able to see we had something to eat. Well, I covered that saga in my reviews posted both the eleventh and the thirteenth.
Also fortunate that our son was able to double down and take care of his own dog, a mini-Aussie-Jack Russell and ours as well. Punkin is always careful to make sure Cooper remembers the house is hers, but Cooper made herself at home early on. (Remember the puppy?) It is a year last August our daughter surprised us with her. I was missing Frosty so much—but more than that—the joy and companionship a dog brings to the household. Cooper grew into approximately 35 lbs of exuberant and energetic watch dog and indefatigable ball retriever. She tries so hard to talk, but I haven’t quite understood a word yet.
So obviously, not a lot of activity on the blog in August, although I did get some reading done. I’m still getting books from NetGalley as well as author and publisher requests, and my local library. Two novels were given a DNF this month (not included in the list below), one from the CE and one from myself and both at just about 25%. Just didn’t click with either of us, totally unusual. As always, links on titles are to our reviews that include purchase or source information.
Reading Challenges page—at this point woefully behind schedule and forced to reduce the Goodreads Challenge from 150 to 130. The CE is reducing his reading and reviewing and I still owe two reviews to Goodreads.
Love my new subscribers—welcome! Thank you to those of you who continue to monitor, read, and comment on my posts. I appreciate you!
With my recent discovery of both the audiobook at my local library and the movie on Netflix (not sure for how much longer), I thought it a good time to post another Movie vs Book article. Nothing here advocating any candidate. That is not my intention. It’s a look at the book and the Ron Howard film the book generated.
The Movie
A Ron Howard film directed and produced (with partners), Howard put together a powerful cast of actors. Once again, a sharp divide between critics opinions and audience reviews. Some said it veered too far off the novel—I felt it followed fairly close. There are always little deviations, but the film did not lose the book’s essence. For his efforts, he won the Golden Raspberry Award. (really?!)
Glenn Close
Glenn Close plays the grandmother, Mamaw, who turned in a remarkable performance using facial expressions and her eyes to cement the tension of the scene. She affected the walk of a long-suffering grandmother doing the best she could. One of the five most nominated actresses for an Oscar; lost Best Supporting Actress that year, also nominated for several other awards including the Golden Globe.
(“I’ll cancel your birth certificate!”)
Amy Adams
Amy Adams, given the difficult role of JDs mother, also continues to stretch her acting chops, turning in a compelling performance as Bev Vance. Hers was considered the leading role. Again, though often thought a strong contender, has been denied either the nomination or the win come Oscar time. There is some controversy whether or not this should have been her turn—apparently not.
Gabriel Basso
Gabriel Basso, who plays the adult J D Vance, would have been a Navy Seal had he not experienced a torn labrum. Beginning as a child actor, he has secured three nominations and two wins. Easily recognizable now for his latest action thriller series, also on Netflix, The Night Agent, he’s been active in both film and television.
I’m a little puzzled over the controversy this film generated. Was it just too honest? Reviews and opinions are all over the place. Everyone comes from a different experience and applying the message from the film might generate a range of conflicting judgments. And that’s okay. We’re all entitled.
The Book
First time I’ve noticed the Amazon ratings 106,821 with 4.4 stars and a 3.9 on Goodreads with 426,652 ratings in the heading.
#1 Best Seller in Sociology
A Memoir of a Family and Culture in Crisis
My Thoughts
Of course, when he was nominated the VP candidate, I had to look for information on him and found this memoir. I’m a fan of books about the Appalachian area and memoirs anyway. When I discovered it among the audiobooks at my local library, I jumped on it.
To say I was a bit surprised would be an understatement. It’s a raw, no holds barred and very graphic account of his childhood to adulthood. (While my dad’s side hailed from Missouri, I couldn’t help but find so many similarities in the description of family life, it was scary. Apparently, a common trait among the folk from those eastern hills.)
Largely raised by his grandmother, it was her philosophy of life that instilled a fierce devotion and loyalty to family. Whether now well Yale educated or not, ex-Marine or not, a life in two worlds, it would appear that it is his Appalachian bearing that still wields the powerful hammer.
Many of his conservative ideas are controversial but he comes from a different universe than most of his congressional billionaire-building cohorts. If he appears to exhibit some pride by making it from extreme poverty, drug use, and alcohol to his station today, perhaps he has a right. (I never forgot where I came from and thinking that this was as good as it was going to get was a plateau I never overcame. Still, I’ve been a lucky one.)
And so was he. Although his message may be one of taking responsibility for oneself—and stop the blame game—he managed to receive some lucky breaks. Supportive family, a Yale education, the right mentors. He tends to some deep introspection and certainly makes a lot of astute observations, offering some stats and info to back his theories and analyses of how or why the country got so divided.
Thought-provoking, heart-pounding narrative that describes the lows, the loss of hope, and then the swing to achievement and triumph.
Curious? It’s definitely worth a listen.
Audiobook (Blurb)
Winner, 2017 APA Audie Awards – Nonfiction
From a former marine and Yale Law School graduate, a powerful account of growing up in a poor Rust Belt town that offers a broader, probing look at the struggles of America’s white working class.
Hillbilly Elegy is a passionate and personal analysis of a culture in crisis – that of white working-class Americans. The decline of this group, a demographic of our country that has been slowly disintegrating over 40 years, has been reported on with growing frequency and alarm but has never before been written about as searingly from the inside. J. D. Vance tells the true story of what a social, regional, and class decline feels like when you were born with it hung around your neck.
The Vance family story begins hopefully in postwar America. J. D.’s grandparents were “dirt poor and in love” and moved north from Kentucky’s Appalachia region to Ohio in the hopes of escaping the dreadful poverty around them. They raised a middle-class family, and eventually their grandchild (the author) would graduate from Yale Law School, a conventional marker of their success in achieving generational upward mobility.
But as the family saga of Hillbilly Elegy plays out, we learn that this is only the short, superficial version. Vance’s grandparents, his aunt, his uncle, his sister, and most of all his mother struggled profoundly with the demands of their new middle-class life and were never able to fully escape the legacy of abuse, alcoholism, poverty, and trauma so characteristic of their part of America. Vance piercingly shows how he himself still carries around the demons of their chaotic family history.
A deeply moving memoir with its share of humor and vividly colorful figures, Hillbilly Elegy is the story of how upward mobility really feels. And it is an urgent and troubling meditation on the loss of the American dream for a large segment of this country.
The Author
J. D. Vance grew up in the Rust Belt city of Middletown, Ohio, and the Appalachian town of Jackson, Kentucky. He enlisted in the Marine Corps after high school and served in Iraq. A graduate of Ohio State University and Yale Law School, he was elected to the United States Senate representing Ohio in 2022. In 2024, he became the Republican nominee for Vice President. Vance lives in Columbus, Ohio, with his family.
Book Details
Genre: Ethnic Studies, Poverty, Sociology Publisher: HarperAudio ASIN: B01EM4ZJBO Listening Length: 6 hrs 49 mins Narrator: J. D. Vance Audible Release: June 28, 2016 Source: Local Library (Audiobook Selections) Title Link: Hillbilly Elegy [Amazon]
I greatly enjoyed the audiobook, narrated by the author, his scrapping childhood enough to break or harden any but the most hardy individual. I listened with interest to his assessment of the divide that exists in the country, critical of many government practices. His is an honest voice I’m sure heard with a jaundiced ear—I doubt he has a problem suppressing his thoughts.
Conclusion
Both the film and the audiobook (and I’d recommend the audiobook) are worth the time for the read and/or watch.
The actors turn in a credible performance—I was especially impressed with Glenn Close—not usually one of my favorites. Amy Adams sold her role of a mother whose lifestyle cemented the inability to care for her children. The critics hated the flick. Audience reviews were more generous. (And by the way, those iconic glasses worn by Glenn Close were Mamaws own glasses, loaned to the actress for her part.)
Did the movie go overboard with the castigation of the Appalachian people in general? Possibly. It’s a searing indictment of the predicament of the poor of the region. In the blame game—who is responsible? A government turning a blind eye? The people themselves? Is Vance pushing the edict, “If I got out, so can you?” Yeah, maybe, or it may be more, “I got out and look at me now!” Hoorah!
In any case, if you can separate the politics and just enjoy the story, either the book or the movie is gripping and powerful entertainment and I’d recommend both.
Best Books of the Year 2024
Nominee for Readers’ Favorite Memoir (2024)
Also fortunate that our son was able to double down and take care of his own dog, a mini-Aussie-Jack Russell and ours as well. Punkin is always careful to make sure Cooper remembers the house is hers, but Cooper made herself at home early on. 
(Remember the puppy?) It is a year last August our daughter surprised us with her. I was missing Frosty so much—but more than that—the joy and companionship a dog brings to the household. Cooper grew into approximately 35 lbs of exuberant and energetic watch dog and indefatigable ball retriever. She tries so hard to talk, but I haven’t quite understood a word yet.
Rosepoint Publishing 